Running Over

I wonder if I’m the only one out there who can tear up during the opening assembly at Vacation Bible School watching the kids sing the catchy little songs?  No, I’m not PMS’ing, and, no, I’m not pregnant again. But as I held Emily in the the sanctuary and watched her watching those “big kids”, my heart was definitely touched, as deep or deeper than it has ever been, and I caught myself choking back tears!

When I was growing up, VBS meant taking all our little friends with us to have fun at church.  Did it occur to us that we were actually learning something? Probably not at the time. I don’t know about the others, but I sure did. And I realize more everyday just how much I did learn!  For example, each day when I change Emily’s clothes in the morning and at night, I always say, “UP and OVER!” as I pull her onesies over her head… then, the song begins… and it comes from out of nowhere or out of somewhere deep inside… “Running over, running over, my cup is full and running over, since the Lord saved me, I’m as happy as can be, my cup is full and running over….” and I see Jean Hess or Joanne Poe making the motions in front of the group and everyone following along.

See Psalm 23:4-6:  ”You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.”(NIV)

We were learning so much more than little songs and phrases, things that stick, like “meat” on our bones.  It’s so important to me to root Emily in the same things. I want her to lean back on these things that are rooted so deep she can’t run from them.  She’s 4 months old. She goes to church (most weeks).  She’s going to VBS and not just to stay in the nursery!  Tonight, I actually left her with the choir secretary, Ms Hazel, b/c Robbie wasn’t there yet and it was my night to volunteer in the nursery.  I left her with someone she really didn’t know (but I knew well), just so she could hear the music and see the bigger kids.

But there’s something missing from VBS in Black Jack…. adults.  When I was a kid, you had at least 1/2 as many adults as kids at VBS, even people who didn’t have kids…. now, not so much.  I love that Emily is watching the bigger kids and will (hopefully) follow in their steps, but who are the bigger kids looking up to?  Are their parents present or did they drop them off and leave?  The 2-3 teachers per class?  There’s a lot more than 2-3 kids in each one… (there are 120 kids enrolled at VBS this year).  I know it’s the end of summer, but if you get a chance, go with your kids to VBS.  I guarantee your heart will be touched.  If VBS has already passed in your area, then go with your kids to church and read Bible stories to your kids. You won’t regret it!

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just a taste of things to come…

I have been so miserable in this heat this week. But, as I was looking at my calendar for E’s next appt time, I realized…. it’s almost August!  WOOO HOOOO!!!! Relief is on the way!  I love, love, love the Fall and I it can not come soon enough for me!  Lots of things to look forward to:  cooler weather, dark blue skies, breezes, changing leaves, falling leaves, apples, Thanksgiving and then CHRISTMAS!  Sorry, I get a little excited about the Fall.

Emily has been tasting a few new things herself this week. Well, one thing really, rice cereal! She’s 4 months old now and has been eye-ing my forks and spoons anxiously for a couple of weeks. So, I started her on some rice cereal one day and she does pretty well with it. She doesn’t seem to hate it, but when she’s really hungry, she can’t seem to agree with me that it is actually food!  I’m sure she’ll get better as time goes on. In the meantime, I’ve cooked, pureed and frozen some peaches for her to try in a couple of months and I’m trying to think ahead of more things I can make and freeze.  If you have ideas or pointers, please share!

Well, that’s enough for now. Sounds like someone needs Mama.  Hope you have a great week!

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making a SPLASH!!!

We’ve had a busy week around these parts, but it’s been great!  By mid week, I decided to get a relaxing tub bath, but I had a very alert baby!! So, I made her a blanket and let her play in the bathroom floor with her toys while I de-stressed.  She didn’t seem to mind much at all.

Later in the week, Grandma Bendy, Aunt Sarah and Cuz Henry came down. They went to the beach for a night with a friend then came up to spend some time here.  Of course, we had to go swimming.  So we enjoyed the pool at Aunt Cathy’s and cooled off.  The next day, Sarah and I took off to hit a few stores, mainly Once Upon a Child, where they were having a clearance sale.  That’s where Sarah got these great sunglasses for the baby!  She seemed to like them okay but she seemed to like having them on her head better.

Either way, she loves to hang out with Henry!  They love each other. She loves to watch him and he lights up every time she touches him!

We ended the weekend with a SPLASH! as Robbie was baptized at Black Jack!  Woo hoo!! He didn’t drown and we’re officially church members!

More of our adventures to come!! :)

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I love you THIS much!

Things are going well out here in our parenting adventure. This past weekend was especially interesting. For some reason, Emily decided that she was going to scream and cry for us, for just about every minute she wasn’t asleep or eating. It was GREAT! :)  Thank goodness for Robbie, who would come and take her from me and give me a break. We actually found out that he was the key!  Apparently, she just wanted to be a “Daddy’s Girl”! She would just calm down and be all good for him.  I have to say, as the Mama who meets ALL her needs each day, this made me feel kinda blah! But at the same time, watching them bond is kinda precious.

Have you ever read the book, Guess How Much I Love You?  It’s a really cute book. I’ve seen it on shelves for years, but, I’ll admit, I never actually read it until this past week.  I grabbed the closest book to keep Emily occupied before bed one night and this is what I came across. The book in a nutshell is the baby bunny telling the bigger/older bunny, “I love you this much….” followed by the bigger bunny saying, “but I love you, THIS much.”  :)   Here’s a quick excerpt:

“‘I love you as high as I can reach,’ said Little Nutbrown Hare.  ’I love you as high as I can reach,’ said Big Nutbrown Hare.  That is very high, thought Little Nutbrown Hare.  I wish I had arms like that.”

And it goes on and on, the little bunny says one thing and the bigger bunny says something even bigger.  I love this story.  Mostly because I see this love much more clearly now.  But, through the relationships I have with Robbie and Emily, I see how “Guess How Much I Love You” is a game I play with God daily!  I tell God thank you and assume my blessings are the “sign” of how much he loves me, but I think that just makes him laugh.  It’s so funny that we attempt to praise God with a sentence “Thank you Lord for my blessings,” or “How great you are, Lord” when he is giving back stuff that is so much BIGGER than we are, because HE is bigger than we are!  If we truly want to attempt to love God as much as he loves us, we’re gonna have to do a lot better than that!  So, I’m praying it out and trying to figure out how to show him how much I love him. It has to be more than words or “worship” (praise and song).  I’m thinking it has to be service, but it’s the where and when I have to keep my eyes open for.

Hope you guys have a great week!! Go read Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney  the next time you’re walking through the book section. I bet you’ll love it, too!!

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A Mommy Challenge Revisited…

I can’t believe that no one replied/commented to the Mommy Challenge blog post, so I am reissuing it!! What? Are you having trouble answering it, too?? Please, help me out here and let me know I’m not alone on this island…

In case you have no idea what I’m talking about, read the last blot “A Mommy Challenge”.. the bottom line of the challenge is:  I want to hear what you think is the best thing about being a mom!! It can be a blurb, a word, a sentence, a blog or a book! I just want to hear what you think!  Can’t wait to hear what you have to say!

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